Divorce Is Where My Story Began

There was a point in my life when I looked around and realized… I didn’t know who I was anymore.

That time point? My divorce.

I chose to leave. I had poured so much of myself into the relationship and into meeting his needs that I forgot to look after my own. I had no boundaries. I didn't know how to ask for what I wanted or even name what I needed. I told myself I was being a good partner. That compromising was love. But the truth is, I lost myself in the process.

And then there was work.

On paper, it all looked great. I had poured myself into my career the same way I had into my marriage, with drive, determination, and ambition. I chased every accolade, every title, every gold star, because that's what we're supposed to do, right? I was the one who got things done. The one they called when special projects needed leaders—on top of my regular job.

And I was in sales, which meant showing up in a strong masculine energy. It was all about the win, the push, the numbers, and the hustle. And I brought that energy home with me, without even realizing so.

I became the provider, the planner, the problem-solver. I later learned I stripped away the polarity in my relationship. There was no room left for softness, vulnerability, or desire, even though it was what I desired most!
We were just two people living together, on parallel tracks, growing further apart.

So when the marriage ended, I found myself wondering:

Who am I?
What do I even want?

Although I had chased success and achieved it, I felt unfulfilled. I was disappointed in myself for not being able to save my relationship. In my mind, I had done what was expected, but had nothing to show for it. And for the first time, I started asking questions. Not about how to fix things… but about how to find myself again.

That’s when my journey of rediscovery began.

I started learning how to reconnect with my feminine energy. I dove into personal development, exploring love languages, energy dynamics, and how we show up in relationships. Later, it was more about emotional healing and Positive Intelligence. I uncovered my saboteurs and finally started listening to my own needs. I —and slowly started rewriting the patterns that had kept me stuck.

I realized I didn’t have to choose between success and love.
Between strength and softness.
Between career and connection.

I could have it all.

And today, I do: a mission I am passionate about that fuels my work and a 13-year relationship that keeps growing stronger.

And now? I help career-driven women do the same.